Gangs

To improve the quality of life for all residents of Salisbury/Rowan
by employing a comprehensive county-wide strategy
to reduce violent crime.

Gangs 101

As parents, we want what is best for our children. We want them to grow up healthy, happy and secure. We strive to offer our children every opportunity to reach their highest potential.

Violent street gangs can destroy a child's bright future in many ways. Although some parents and guardians may view gangs as innocent, rebellious groups of kids, gangs are extremely dangerous, often deadly and growing at an alarming rate.

Do you have information on gangs or gang-related activity in Rowan County? Click here to contact Officer Todd Sides by email.

Facts About Gangs

Act in ways that harm public health and public morals, and drive out businesses.
Reach into nearly every city and town, and into every high school in the country today.
Make people in their city, town, or neighborhood feel fearful and endangered.
Are recruiting children at record rates.
Have drug trafficking as their main occupation.
Come from many ethnic groups and in many cases are networking across the country.
Are composed primarily of boys, but 10% of gang members are girls and the number is growing.

Is Your Child at Risk?
No child can be totally safe from gang influences. Gangs exist in all ethnic groups, all parts of the country, and all income levels.
Risk factors include:

Living in an area with a high level of gang activity.
Lack of a positive support system at home.
Violence against family members
Denial by the family that the child is under a gang's influence.
Exposure to TV shows, movies, and/or music that glorifies violence.
Lack of alternative activities, such as community youth programs.
Low self-esteem and/or a sense of hopelessness about the future.
Difficulty making decisions and communicating with others.
Too much unsupervised free time.
A lack of respect for authority (parents, teachers, law enforcement officers).
Experience using alcohol or other drugs.
Growing up in a single-parent family or with other family members who belong or belonged to gangs.

Key Dangers of Gangs

Act in ways that harm public health and public morals, and drive out businesses.
Reach into nearly every city and town, and into every high school in the country today.
Make people in their city, town, or neighborhood feel fearful and endangered.
Are recruiting children at record rates.
Have drug trafficking as their main occupation.
Come from many ethnic groups and in many cases are networking across the country.
Are composed primarily of boys, but 10% of gang members are girls and the number is growing.
In order to join, new members go through an initiation, which can range from fighting other gang members to participating in thefts, gang rapes, drive-by shootings, or even murders.
Gang members use alcohol and drugs.
Gangs deal drugs and try to sell them on the street, even to young children. Worse yet, they trick children into trying drugs to get them "hooked."
Gang members get badly hurt or killed during gang fights and criminal acts.
Families of gang members often become targets of violence when gangs are feuding.
Gangs rely on weapons, especially guns. Anyone, not only gang members can be injured in a gang related crime or a fight between rival gangs.
Gangs gain control over an area by using force and making people afraid. The area becomes their turf, where they sell drugs and commit other crimes.
Where there are gangs, the crime rate rises. Crimes range from damaging public property and selling and using drugs, to committing murder.
Gangs look down on the school system. Youths in gangs do poorly in school or drop out entirely.
A large number of persistent and dangerous juvenile gang offenders become even more serious adult offenders.

Why Some Kids Choose to Join Gangs

Identity, Attention, and Status
Gangs may offer kids a powerful group identity and a kind of recognition they cannot get at home or elsewhere.
Protection
If there are many gangs in an area, joining one of them may offer protection from rival gangs.
Feeling of Belonging
Gang activity may offer a feeling of being a part of a "family" that is missing in the child's home. The child becomes loyal to the gang's values, rather than those of the home.
Intimidation
Threats and violent beatings may be used to force youths to join.
Excitement
Gang activity may seem attractive to kids who are bored, lack interests and direction, or do not feel good about themselves. The media has glamorized gangs in music, movies, and video games. This adds to the excitement associated with them.
Peer Pressure
Kids are pressured to join gangs if others around them are gang members.
Financial Benefit
Kids see being in a gang as an easy way to gain money and new possessions.
Lack of Knowledge
Kids, especially young ones, do not realize the true dangers of being in a gang.

Helping Your Child Refuse Gangs

Help Your Child Develop Self Esteem

Support your child's goals and ideas, even if they differ from your own.
Encourage your child to make independent choices.
Give your child a chance to contribute to the family. Assign chores or jobs that your child is old enough to do.
Focus on your child's good points. Praise positive behavior.
Let your child know you expect good efforts and hard work in everything.
Teach your child that trying hard counts. Praise your child's efforts as well as achievements.
Set reasonable limits and follow through on them. That way, your child learns to handle limits.
Ask for your child's opinions and decisions on family matters.
Express your feelings and encourage your child to do the same. Try not to judge or criticize your child's feelings.
Make it clear that you love your child as he or she is.

Keep Gangs Out of Your Community!

Report Gang Activity

Contact school or police officials about dangerous and/or illegal things you see. These might include:

Graffiti
Houses with many people going in and out at all hours of the day and night.
Groups of youngsters using alcohol or other drugs.
Drug dealing.
Groups of teenagers hanging around school grounds.
Groups of youngsters carrying weapons.

Get Involved

Establish "safe school zones" with stiff punishments for crimes committed within the zone.
Remove gang graffiti.
Join or form community groups that report suspected gang activity.
Work with neighbors to provide safe park areas and to keep them clean and crime-free.
Attend gang-awareness workshops. Invite your neighbors, too.
Support or help establish programs that provide kids with positive activities, such as scouts, sports, recreation, and art programs.

Help to give the message that gangs will NOT be tolerated in your community!

Help Your Child "SAY NO" to Gangs

Be A Good Role Model
Don't abuse alcohol or other drugs. If you have a problem with drugs, violence, or anything else that interferes with family life, get help. Honor your word and expect your child to do the same.

Safeguard Your Child

Know the "Three W's"

� Where your child is,

� What he or she is doing,

� Who he or she is with.

Be Involved In Your Child's Life

Show interest in your child's schoolwork, hobbies, and friends.
Work to build open, ongoing communication with your child.
Listen without being quick to judge.
Set aside time for positive family activities.
Monitor what your child watches and listens to, especially television shows, music, and movies that promote gangs or are full of violence.
Encourage your child to spend time wisely studying, doing chores, or participating in sports, hobbies, art, scouts, or volunteer groups.

Teach Good Values And Responsibility

Emphasize strong family values, including respect and responsibility. Show by your example how much you value these traits.
Be consistent about discipline.
Hold your child answerable for his or her behavior.
Teach your child respect for authority.
Establish clear limits and rules; expect your child to follow them.

Talk to Your Child About Gangs

Believe it or not, most gang members are 13 to 21 years of age, but they can be as young as 9. Teach your child about gangs while he or she is still in elementary school. Talk with your child about the dangers of gangs and the reasons people join them. Help your child learn that he or she has the inner strength to make the right choice.

The Subject, and What to Say (Parent to Child) Good Groups vs. Bad Groups

"Good groups get together to do good or positive things."
(Examples: scouts, sports teams, art/craft clubs, food drives, neighborhood cleanups.)

"Gangs are bad groups because they break the law and do things that hurt people."

"Avoid gang members. Don't hang out with gang members or go to parties where they will be present."

Gangs Break Laws

"People in gangs may damage property, use drugs, steal, and carry weapons. Doing any of these things can get you arrested."

Dangerous Membership

"Some gang members get hurt or killed in fights between gangs and in committing criminal acts. Sometimes they hurt or kill innocent people."

Control Over Freedom

"When you join a gang, you lose all personal control. You can't leave when you want."

Members May Bully You

"Gangs may scare you or try to hurt you to make you join. If this ever happens to you, say 'NO', leave fast and tell me what happened.

Is Your Child in a Gang?

Gang Members share a name; form of identification (e.g., clothing, colors), "turf" or territory, and code talk (e.g., hand signs, graffiti, slang). The signs below could mean your child is in a gang. Remember; none of these are sure signs of gang involvement. Street Talk Gangs use a mixture of English and street slang. These words are meant to be difficult for "outsiders" to understand. Hand Signals Each gang has it's own set. Graffiti Gangs use graffiti to mark or "tag" their territory. They also often mark their belongings. Clothing Styles All members may wear the same style of clothing or may wear all accessories on either the right or left side, including hats, jewelry, shoelaces, gloves, belt buckles, and so on. Colors Clothing may be all in one or two colors. The colors also appear on hair ornaments, nail polish, and belongings. Symbols The signs in the gang's graffiti may also appear on their belongings, skin (tattoos), and may be cut into their hair.		Common Slang Among Gang Members Gangbanger: Active gang member Home boy or home girl: Gang member Jump in: Gang initiation Nut up: Angry Og: Original gang member Packing: Carrying a gun Rag: Color of a gang Shooter: Gang member who is carrying a gun Tagger: Someone who uses graffiti Wannabe: Youngster who wants to be a gang member Is Your Child Acting Differently? A change in your child's behavior may be a sign that he or she is involved with a gang. Your child may be in a gang if he or she starts to: Skip school or miss work often. Spend time with undesirable people. Desire a lot of privacy. Refuse to take part in family activities. Stay out later than usual. Drink alcohol or use other drugs. Show unusual moods or patterns of behavior. Suddenly have more money or other possessions.
Dealing with Gang Membership
Try to talk calmly with your child no matter how upset the possibility of gang membership makes you. Ask if he or she is in a gang, and why. Avoid being quick to judge. Recognize that gang membership is not just the child's problem, it's the family's problem as well. Redefine the rules your child must follow and enforce them. Seek outside help if your child won't talk, is difficult to communicate with, or if you suspect he or she is lying. If You Need Help Removing Your Child From A Gang's Influence, Here Are People You Can Contact School counselor Local police gang unit School resource officer Social service agencies Health professionals Clergy Counselors
Do you have information on gangs or gang-related activity in Rowan County? Click here to contact Officer Todd Sides by email.

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